One of my friends and I were talking about personality traits and he sent me the video below. Take a look and I’ll continue my thoughts afterward.
This video freaked me the hell out!
OK, it wasn’t nearly that bad but after reviewing it a couple of times, some things about me made perfect sense…at least in explaining it to people in the future. Below, I’ll put the things that really stood out to me:
- Needing to recharge after spending time with people
I really like to spend time with folks but after I’m done, I need recuperation time – quite a bit of it! Many of my friends and partners over the years did not understand this part of me – heck, I didn’t understand it myself.
If I don’t get that time to re-set myself, I feel out of balance and I’m not as nice of a person as I know I can be.
- Being calm during fights
I try not to get into arguments much but over the years I’ve always heard, “You don’t care,” or “You’re so nonchalant about this…” I never tied that into a trait related to me being a loner.
It’s not that I don’t care – again, it takes me off balance and I don’t like that feeling.
- Being kind towards others
This one has gotten me into trouble. I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, even when they piss me off. Unfortunately, many view this as a weakness in today’s society and they try to push you to see how far they can get. Most times, especially since I’ve gotten older, they’re not allowed to push very far at all.
What do you think of the video? Share your thoughts and whether anything stood out to you about yourself or someone you know.